I offer that "extra ear" and advice, to all the men out there just needing to "air out" what is on their mind. I personally, had no one to talk to when it came to my "up and all of a sudden" divorce. Ran, scrambled and stressed to find an a attorney and the money for one! My marriage was UNFATHOMABLE and to this day, when people ask, I say "ya i was married, but there was no marriage". I was practically my own attorney for my divorce, and I could be one with all the knowledge/research I had done, If only I had the time nor the desire to become a Divorce Attorney.